my main thing as a young adult is finding myself. to me that means not living for ur parents or friends, but for yourself. also realizing that not everyone is out for your best interest. it may take a while but in time everything comes to light. a true friend is there to give you support,  be honest when you are and the wrong, and generally wants to see you succeed.so now that i am finding out who are truely "good people" , i am finally stepping out on my own and trying to acheive the goals  i have set for myself.