DEAR FRIENDS- How many of you are frustrated about your sexual experience but really don't know why you feel unsatisfied- or how to fix it? From a thoughtful observation of the never-ending stream of remedies peddled by the drug industry and the decades-long discussion on TV/Radio talk shows, the internet and magazines, it appears that millions of us are endlessly searching for sexual satisfaction that we never truly find.
This is truly a mystery! How can something as basic to our humanity as sex be such a problem for so many people?
There IS a genuine explanation for the loss of sexual joy that so many of us are struggling with. And I promise you that your capacity for deep and joyful sexual pleasure is inborn and ready to blossom forth- if you grasp the connection between your sexual energy, your overall emotional openness- and your capacity for love.
The insight that our emotional blocks in general- which everybody has (through no choice or fault of their own.....)- HIGHLY impacts our sexual satisfaction is virtually unknown. And yet it is enormously important and is the missing key for people to revolutionize their sex lives and claim the deep pleasure and joy they deserve.
Simply put, this is how it works- if your anger or sadness is blocked and not flowing freely into expression and release; if you are in a state of tension from stored-up fear; or if any other core emotion (for example, the deep longing for love) is being suppressed- your sexual ability to be sexually excited will also be suppressed. This includes your ability to freely and joyfully orgasm.
Why is this so? Because our emotions are just that: energy-in-motion. Our chi/prana/life-force flows through our bodies in a unified fashion. When the flow of life-force-emotional energy is significantly blocked/stuck in one area, the flow becomes blocked in ALL areas.
The practical truth of this is confirmed again and again in my work with my clients. I regularly hear reports that after the lively expression and release of a previously blocked emotion (usually anger, sadness and/or fear) the vividness and pleasure of sexual feelings and orgasmic satisfaction noticeably increases. And this growth in excitement and fulfillment in sex grows and becomes permanent- the "new normal"- as the person's resistance to his/her own emotions is worked through and the life-force flows fully and freely.
When you then add the truth that sexual excitement and open-hearted love need to blend and flow together for the most powerful pleasure and connection, you have the full picture.
Sex really IS as joyful, life-affirming and amazing as it's reputed to be! For those of us who have been frustrated or disappointed by their level of pleasure and satisfaction I say- release your emotional blocks and open your heart to every feeling it contains. Especially LOVE and your hunger for sexual pleasure and union. As you embody this your sexual self will naturally blossom forth.
Trust me on this my friends- and test the truth of what I'm saying in your own bodies, your own feelings, your own relationships. I guarantee you will be happy you did! LOTS OF LOVE- BRYAN