When we are looking for something in life the only way to begin the search is by positioning ourselves in a place of comfort, peace and harmony with our very own self. When we fight with our mind for something and we begin an internal war that feels uncomfortable or doesn't flow, we are not creating the right atmosphere to bring any desire to our life. When we are able to recognize the difference in the feeling of where we currently are and the feeling of where we would like to be, it is when we create a contrast and the acceptance and understanding of why we are where we are.
By living the contrast and knowing why we are in such place, we are opening a path of flow where we can then move towards our objective. If we only give energy to the mind battle of what we don't want or why we don't have it, we are not opening to the wisdom of the learning process.
Everything in life is a learning process. Even our desires. The learning process falls into the contrast of why we are where we are and how we can move to where we want to be. When we begin the learning process, accept our position and open to new wisdom, the ideas and feelings will begin to flow and bring us closer to our desire.
It is like facing the opportunity of opening several doors or just dealing with several offers. If we are not clear of what we don't want or what has caused us to be where we are right now, we will not be clear about making the right decision or just taking the next step towards true happiness. --- Abraham/Jerry and Esther
Every time you want something and achieve vibrational harmony with it and allow it to come to you, you not only gain the satisfaction of having accomplished your desire -- you also gain a whole new perspective from which to desire.